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  • Meet Michele

    Pronounced “Me-Ke-Lah” (or Michael)

    Our fifth exchange student and the second from Germany. He arrived in August 2023, and left in June 2024.

    In his own words… (2023)

    Three words:

    Outgoing, Hardworking, Optimistic

    Tell us about you:

    Hello, my name is Michele and I am 15 years old. In my free time, I like to hang out with my friends, nevertheless, I am focused on rowing. Apart from that I am a fun-loving, and appreciative person. In my free time, I am a professional rower, who loves activities inside and outside. That is why I also played the guitar for 10 years.

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  • Kathy Seei Park – Some Words

    At tonight’s City of Frisco Council meeting, there is a recommendation to rename a city park from Central Park to Kathy Seei Park, after one of our former mayors, and a good friend. Here is the speech that I hope to give during the public comments (this has been forwarded to the Council by email in the event this doesn’t happen).

    Good Evening Everyone,

    I’m James Nunn, a resident of Frisco TX 75035, and I’ve called this wonderful city home since March 5, 1999—exactly twenty-five years ago today. I’m here to lend my support to the recommendation of the Park & Trail Naming Committee to rename Central Park to Kathy Seei Park.

    Firstly, I’d like to commend the committee for their decision to honor our former Mayor’s dedication to our city. I believe there’s no better location for this recognition than here, in this park. When you stand here and look around, you can’t help but be reminded of the vision Mayor Seei and our city leaders had for Frisco.

    When Kathy began her term as Mayor in 1996, Frisco was a young home rule city of just twelve years, with a population of around 18,000. Our city leaders were facing crucial decisions about our future. Thanks to Kathy and our council at the time, everything that defines Frisco today stems from the ideas, hopes, and dreams of those leaders from the late ’90s and early 2000s. “The plan,” as the award-winning Millennium Plan was known, mapped out the pathways for our city’s development. Today, we live, work, and play in that vision.

    My husband, Chris, and I had the privilege of getting to know Kathy after moving to Frisco. We attended city council meetings in the old municipal court building on McKinney, becoming increasingly involved over the years. Kathy encouraged citizen involvement, listening to concerns, feedback, and dreams for life in Frisco. She believed it was crucial to honor our past while building our future—a philosophy that resonated deeply with many. Kathy’s ability to engage people in conversation was truly remarkable.

    Kathy was a mayor of the people. She connected with them, listened to them, and engaged them. She knew that with citizens actively supporting Frisco’s growth, nothing could stop us from realizing our vision. And we did. I recall a time when Kathy asked about our newest addition to the family, our dog Bosley, after meeting him just once. It blew our minds. It was a testament to Kathy’s unique character and why she was loved by so many.

    It’s long overdue and deeply appreciated to see such an amazing Mayor honored with a significant focal point bearing her name. Remembering our past as we shape our future is integral to our community’s identity. Thank you for recognizing Kathy’s contribution to what Frisco is today. May future generations hold each of you in the same high regard that we hold Kathy.

    Thank you.

    Updated (3/6/2024): Here is the link to this agenda (with video) from the Council meeting. Click on Agenda Item 19 (or move to timeline 32:30) to see the video segment.
    https://agenda.friscotexas.gov/OnBaseAgendaOnline/Meetings/ViewMeeting?id=4822&doctype=1#

  • Celebrating 25 Years of Love, Friendship, and Memories

    Celebrating 25 Years of Love, Friendship, and Memories

    As I sit here reflecting on the incredible journey Chris and I have embarked on together, I’m filled with an overwhelming sense of gratitude and love. Today marks our 25th anniversary, a milestone that feels both surreal and incredibly special. From the moment our eyes met, I knew Chris was the one I wanted to build my life with. Our love story has been filled with ups and downs, but through it all, our commitment to each other has only grown stronger.

    Chris has been my rock, my confidant, and my partner in every sense of the word. His unwavering support and love have been the foundation upon which we’ve built our life together.

    As we celebrate 25 years of love, friendship, and memories, I am filled with gratitude for the journey we’ve shared and the adventures that lie ahead. Here’s to many more years of laughter, love, and making memories together. Happy anniversary, husband. You not only mean the world to me, you are my world.

    Photo credit: @traviswalling

  • Celebrating a Legacy: Remembering My Mother on Her 85th Birthday

    Celebrating a Legacy: Remembering My Mother on Her 85th Birthday

    Today marks what would have been the 85th birthday of an extraordinary woman – my mother. As I navigate through this bittersweet day, I find myself enveloped in a sea of memories, each a testament to the remarkable (and hard) life she led and the enduring impact she has left on those who knew her.

    Mom and I at The Ryman in Nashville TN

    Mom was a beacon of strength and resilience, touching lives with her unwavering compassion and boundless love. She always has a way of bringing a smile to your face, sometimes funny and sometimes in response to something she said. She had a way of making everyone feel special and loved, a gift that made her a cherished figure not only within our family but in our community as well. 

    Reflecting on her life, I am reminded of the countless lessons she imparted, especially to me. From her, I learned the value of resilience, the importance of kindness, and the unyielding power of love. I also inherited her stubbornness which is both a blessing and a curse. She was a woman of grace and dignity (most of the time), facing life’s challenges with a quiet yet formidable strength. Her legacy lives on in the lives she touched and the love she shared. Especially among her children and their offspring. 

    On this day, her 85th birthday, I celebrate her life, her love, and her legacy. While she may no longer be with us in person, her spirit continues to guide and inspire me every day. Happy birthday, Mom. Your memory is a blessing that continues to light our way.

  • NPO Boards: More than Just Volunteering

    NPO Boards: More than Just Volunteering

    As many of you know, I have spent the past 30+ years actively working, supporting, and donating to nonprofit organizations. Over those same years, I have served on many boards, in different capacities, and I have also worked for NPO boards, so I believe I have a good understanding of this world. In this post, I’m discussing the role of board members and some of the complexities that exist when working with NPO board as a volunteer.

    When NPO boards work well together and are working towards a focused mission, it is crazy how much can be done, and in many cases, without the look or feel of chaos in getting those things done. When those boards do not work well together, then that is a completely different story.

    Nonprofit boards play a critical role in the guidance and success of organizations. However, when composed of volunteers, challenges often emerge that can hinder their effectiveness. Some of these complexities include mistrust, competing priorities, individualism vs. collaboration, and wavering commitment to fiduciary responsibilities.

    1. Lack of Trust: A board without trust is like a ship without a rudder. Mistrust can result from a myriad of factors, from past disputes to differing viewpoints. According to Harvard Business Review, trust is the foundation of every successful team. Without it, boards struggle to make critical decisions and operate efficiently. Harvard Business Review.
    2. Competing Priorities: Individual board members often come from diverse backgrounds with unique perspectives. While this diversity is valuable, it can lead to competing priorities. Members might prioritize their personal or professional interests over the organization’s mission, creating tension and division. The influence of staff can sometimes add priorities that serve the staff member, but not the organization.
    3. Lack of Cohesive Collaboration: Teamwork is crucial for a board’s success. However, a study from Stanford Social Innovation Review highlighted that 65% of nonprofit boards exhibited weak dynamics that prevented effective collaboration. Cohesion is compromised when members don’t effectively communicate, or when they operate in silos. Stanford Social Innovation Review.
    4. Fiduciary Responsibilities: All board members have a duty to the organization’s financial health and mission. Sadly, some neglect these duties due to a lack of understanding or commitment. Such negligence can lead to financial mismanagement and can tarnish the reputation of the organization. With charitable organizations (like a 501(c)(3)), this failure of the board can lead to the lose of their status!

    Addressing the Complexities

    Overcoming these challenges requires proactive steps:

    • Building Trust: Establishing open communication and regular board training sessions can foster an environment of trust. Reducing the one-on-one conversations about matters that the board should be discussing helps build trust, as others not included do not feel left out.
    • Aligning Priorities: Regularly revisiting the organization’s mission and vision can help board members align their priorities. Spending some time each year going over the main strategic goals and evaluating the success or failure of the board meeting those goals, helps align priorities and provide a built-in reality check on how the board is doing.
    • Promoting Collaboration: Team-building activities and training can nurture a collaborative board environment. Reaching out to collaborate with others or other organizations, also can help overcome challenges.
    • Reinforcing Fiduciary Duties: Regular financial reporting and external audits can ensure transparency and reinforce the importance of fiduciary duties. Asking questions about the financials, and seeking a better understanding from other board members who understand the financial reports will help educate oneself more. Numbers (generally) don’t lie, and often you can get a very clear understanding of the status of an organization (e.g. your own board) by spending a little time looking at those numbers.

    Noone said serving on a volunteer nonprofit board was easy, and every board will face unique challenges, however, having an awareness of how to recognize and address these complexities as they arise can pave the way for a more effective and harmonious board.

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