But first, an update.

It seems that when things happen, they happen all at once. After enjoying a week off during Thanksgiving, I threw my back out the Saturday after the holiday. This happens from time to time, and it is always an annoyance and a reminder that I’m getting older.

So the Monday after Thansgiving I returned to work, and spent it as a catch up day and I was somewhat relieved that the wheels had not come off over the holidays, a sign that things were getting better at work (or so I thought).

Tuesday I decided to join one of my friends and launched my new Rodan+Fields business. With the strong growth of the company, and the future expansion plans for the Asia-Pacific region, I knew this was the right thing for me to be doing right now (or so I thought).

I kept busy for the remainder of the week, and I continued to get my back in order (taking it slowly as I reintroduced my back to the gym).

Friday I had planned for a couple of meetings and a holiday lunch at the office – which were quite pleasant – and then BOOM! Laid off! Yep, after eight years with Big Brothers Big Sisters the decision had been made to part ways. It was a shock and a disappointment, but that was only the initial reaction. As the reality set in, I realized this provided an opportunity for growth.

So I threw myself into building my R+F business, and continue planning some travel that we had going on over the holidays. I’m even getting to the gym more and I’m feeling less stressed, sleeping better and losing weight! So the new chapter is starting and it looks bright!

All that being said, my business is not even close to being full time, so contrary to what social media sites suggest (looking at you LinkedIn and Facebook), I’m still looking for work.

So if your company or business (or one you know of) is looking for a motivated person to start their new year with, I’d love to make a connection. Connect with me here.

Let me share something: I Am A Mentor!

Have you ever had a series of events happen where you just realized this was how something was meant to be? I have, and in part, this is what has me sitting at my keyboard coming out (again) as a mentor on “I Am A Mentor” day (which is celebrated during National Mentoring Month (which January is)).

I think I’ve always been a mentor in some capacity with the people that have been a part of my life over the years. I think it is a natural part of who I am, and I think everyone has this within them, and often just need to find the right space to show the world (or not).

Since starting to work with Big Brothers Big Sisters, mentoring has been a huge part of my life. Not the actually “doing” part of it – though there were elements of that in my day-to-day work life – but the listening and coaching of volunteers, youth and parents/guardians in the matches that each of them had as a part of their lives. As each day went on, I wanted to be a part of that experience. I talked with Chris and after he was on board, we got our applications and screening done and were approved.

Chris and Trey - 2008 Birthday
Chris and Trey – 2008 Birthday

Here is where the “it was meant to be” starts. On March 5 (Chris and my anniversary) we received the call to share we had a Little Brother. I remember the elation that I had at the time, which I tried to capture in this blog post. Then we met Trey and his mom, Andrea (this is done at a Match Introduction). We left our first meeting with Trey appreciating how great this experience was going to be. This was nearly seven years ago (at the time of this post), when Trey was 10.

In those (nearly) seven years, we have continued to “hang out” with Trey nearly every week. (Side note: this is not the norm with matches; the expectation is meeting between 2-4 times a month.) We have skipped a week here and then due to travels, or sickness, or tennis tournaments, etc. but not a week goes by where we don’t talk to Trey. It’s like you are missing something in your life if that interaction doesn’t happen (not sure if that explains it or not). Some of the highlights of our time together have been our regular trips to Schlitterbahn, Jimmy Buffet concerts (I think 2-3), transitioning from middle school to high school and getting on the tennis team, the many surprise parties celebrating our birthdays, and our fancy steak dinner at Three Forks to celebrate Trey’s 17th birthday.

Chris, Trey and I at a bowling event
Chris, Trey and I

I have had many discussions with mentors who have shared that they want to “make a difference” in a young person’s life, and there were some of thoughts with both Chris and I when we first started our journey with Trey, but there was something else. Trey impacted our lives in ways that we never could have anticipated.

We have watched him grow up. We have been then for those exciting moments in his life, and shared the misery in those less than happy times. We have shared the frustrations (in some cases we may have even caused some), but most of the time, we have just had fun. Mentoring can be hard, if you try too hard. We learnt early on that Trey just wanted to spend time with us. It didn’t matter what we did, as long as he was there to do it with us. Walking the dogs at the dog park, picking up trash along the BBBS adopted roadway, playing video games, swimming or just chilling at a basketball game – all of these have been more enjoyable because we were experiencing this with Trey.

Trey
Trey

Trey is now 17, a junior in high school playing on the varsity tennis team. He is an incredible young man, and we both love him like he is a part of our family – because he is. He drives (which still freaks me out thinking he is old enough to) and he is very responsible in life (and academics). And he still likes hanging out with us.

So yes, I Am A Mentor and my life has changed as a result of being Trey’s mentor. I am beyond thankful that I have had this experience in my life, and a difference has been made – only it wasn’t quite what I thought it would be … it has been so much better.

If you would like to be a Big / mentor, then sign up today with BBBS. Maybe there is a life out there that will change yours!

 

Help me Bowl For Kids’ Sake on July 17

Bowl For Kids SakeGuess What?!?!

I’m bowling for Big Brothers Big Sisters and I need your support. I have set a personal goal of raising $500 in sponsorships to help my team (“Bad Apples 1”) in the BBBS Employee Bowl for Kids’ Sake event on July 17, 2009. Can you support me?

Your contribution will help raise funds for BBBS, and the many programs that BBBS does to impact the lives of our youth throughout our community. Any amount is welcome, and you can contribute by clicking on this link and making your contribution now.

As many of you know, and some of you may not, not only do I work for BBBS, but Chris and I also have been matched with our Little Brother since March 2008. For me, this has been an incredible personal journey, and continues to impact my life in a positive way.

If each person that receives this email could donate $10.00 then I could easily meet my goal. Of course, donations of any amount are always welcome, and I’m very happy to exceed my goal should that opportunity arise. Can you support my efforts for Bowl for Kids’ Sake today?

Your support is appreciated, and I encourage you to forward this email to your friends, family and colleagues to seek their support for this Bowl For Kids’ Sake program.

For information on the Bowl for Kids’ Sake program, please visit the website at www.bowlforkidssake.org.

Thank you for any support you can offer.

James Nunn

Help me Bowl For Kids’ Sake on July 18

Guess What?!?!

I’m bowling for Big Brothers Big Sisters and I need your support. I have set a personal goal of raising $1000 in sponsorships to help my team (“Northern Lights”) in the BBBS Employee Bowl for Kids’ Sake event on July 18, 2008. Can you support me?

Your contribution will help raise funds for BBBS, and the many programs that BBBS does to impact the lives of our youth throughout our community. Any amount is welcome, and you can contribute by clicking on this link and making your contribution now.

As many of you know, and some of you may not, not only do I work for BBBS, but Chris and I also have been matched with our Little Brother since March this year. For me, this has been an incredible personal journey, and has really impacted my life in a positive way, and far more than I first imagined. Not only do I get to do fun things that some may think I’m too old for, but I am (re-)learning the importance of appreciating the enjoyment that life has to offer.

If each person that receives this email could donate $10.00 then I could easily meet my goal. Of course, donations of any amount are always welcome, and I’m very happy to exceed my goal should that opportunity arise. Can you support my efforts for Bowl for Kids’ Sake today?

Your support is appreciated, and I encourage you to forward this email to your friends, family and colleagues to seek their support for this Bowl For Kids’ Sake program.

For information on the Bowl for Kids’ Sake program, please visit the website at www.bowlforkidssake.org.

Thank you for any support you can offer.

James Nunn